If you have a boyfriend, could you still want to be a sister?

Yes, by all means! Having a boyfriend is often a healthy, normal experience for young women as they come to understand themselves. Learning how to form deep relationships is essential to being a sister because our lives are about relationships. We have a relationship first and foremost with God. We have relationships with one another and we have relationships with those we see each day. If you have experienced important relationships you will know something about love and forgiveness. And love and forgiveness are what the Kingdom of God is all about.
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